Letting Go

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I think sometimes we only think of letting go when it comes to BIG specific things, like a dream that didn’t come to life or an opportunity that didn’t turn out as we had wished. However, what if we were to “let go” more than just when we have to? Scroll down to read more!

If we make letting go a daily way of life, it will become habitual and natural to release the tight grip that we have on our own dreams, plans, and thoughts. Doing so will ease our burden and allow us to surrender control of our lives over to the One who is actually in control. “Letting go” can be a constant lifestyle and a forever frame of mind, versus just an act when you are in a situation or circumstance that forces you to let go. A yoga teacher once said during class, “Let go and let God”, and that has forever made an impact on my life. If we choose to live in a “let go” state, we open ourselves up to all that He is capable of doing! A few thoughts on how to actually do this…

Praise Him each morning by praying, giving thanks, reading His Word, and turning on worship music as you get ready for the day;these things put the focus on Him versus ourselves and set our minds in a place that is open to His direction.

-When you start to feel stress over figuring something out, or obsession over an outcome, or worry over what could happen “if”…stop, breathe, and say out loud “Jesus, I give this to you. I lay it down.” Or something like that! It is amazing how the act of saying those words actually changes our mindset and causes peace to settle in.

Keep Moving. This is a funny one because at the same time that we are to “move forward” we are also called to “be still” in waiting for His guidance and direction. Even though they sound opposite, they actually can be and should be lived out simultaneously. Read this previous post for more!

-If you feel like your mind can’t let go of something, journal about it or call a friend or family member to talk it out. I had a great conversation with a friend recently and she made a comment about letting things work themselves out, which is another aspect of letting go. Give things time to happen, but in the meantime, write down your thoughts and seek wise counsel.

We would love to hear your thoughts on letting go in the comments section! Here is a passage of scripture that we find so comforting and encouraging when it comes to letting go, surrendering, and trusting Him:

My child, listen to me and do as I say, and you will have a long, good life. 

I will teach you wisdom’s ways and lead you in straight paths. 

When you walk, you won’t be held back; 

when you run, you won’t stumble. 

Take hold of my instructions; don’t let them go. 

Guard them, for they are the key to life.  

Proverbs 4:10-14 (NLT) 


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  • Mikayla Blease

    This was so timely for me this morning. I’m a positive person by nature but change can be difficult for me because I live by routine. Positivity comes so naturally for me but as of late it has been much more of a struggle to keep my head above worry and stess during this season. I’m learning that “letting go” can seem like the end of something, but in reality is just the beginning of living a life of freedom in Christ!

    Loved this post! It was such a good reminder for me to continue to praise Him and out of abundance in his presence joy and peace WILL FLOW!

    • Melissa Mayer

      AMEN! The part where you said “just the beginning of living a life of freedom in Christ” is incredible!! Thank you for your true words and we are so happy that you liked the post. Thanks for reading LSK 🙂 xoxo

  • George Rector

    Amen, Lauren. When multiple sclerosis and subsequent paraplegia ended the career in eye care that I loved and put a stop to some decent amateur nature photography, I was very down. After some deep breaths and a move, new opportunities arose helping others in a different way. And after much frustration my photography is looking good again. As you often explain to us, it isn’t easy, and it doesn’t come quickly. Blessings.

  • Maria

    I love these posts that you’ve posted lately. I got out of a 3 year relationship about 5 months ago. It was difficult. I progressed by focusing on God, unfortunately he contacted me last week and it brought everything back. I’m trying to focus on God again and let go of it all.

  • Marlo haft

    This was just what I️ needed to read tonight..have felt super anxious the last several days and felt
    Like I needed to ‘make something ‘happen all day! But I️ need to Let go and Let God and just keep moving forward, He leading me every step of the way!!!

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